people always think about themselves,sometimes they may deny that they always do for others but it is very true that whatever they do is only centered about their own issues.some people tell us about their life experience on how they have helped others but the main fact behind this to tell others is only to make their position more strong on the listeners mind to whom you are telling this to.
you might think sometimes that, "yes, i also help others but never think of getting rewards in return!" but do you really mean that? May be the answer is NO.It is because once you are telling about your personal experience on - "How you have helped people in various ways". It becomes something like you are advertising your self attitudes and behaviours just to impress the person or the listener for a while. If it is not like that then you would have never said anything like that to anyone.Not even you would have think to tell anyone about your helping attitudes because always remember that whatever you are,people will find it out by themselves or it will be infront of everyone.As we all know that truth is never hidden inside anything for ceturies, it has to be revealed in any way. You never have to highlight those portion of good deeds infront of everyone inorder to gather some good words for you.
If you are honest, if you are good, if you are really helpful just stay like that and keep on doing things for others like helping and sorting their problems.But never replace your compliments as your Pride.People who are living beside you and know you a little will soon get to know the whole about you. Its not that you have to be good in their eye.