A person not having anything may feel happy. But, in spite of having many good things to one’s advantage, one may still feel miserable. Therefore we must change our attitude, for changing our life to excellence. This topic has been discussed in an article in Times of India dt. Oct 13, 2011. In any situation, a person can feel happy or unhappy. It is a question of looking at the things. No one has everything. Some things are always denied to persons, but these vary from person to person. If we see those things which we have, we will be happy and we will feel like sharing and giving the same. If we just see those things which we do not have, we will feel unhappy. We should think as to what and how we can help others, instead of thinking what we can gain. Many of us just blame other person(s) for our normal conflicts. We should accept persons as they are and not have expectations from others including spouse and children. We should release them from our clutches, for their fulfillment. Love with expectations is selfishness. Normally, selfish persons are not happy. This is the main reason for breaking of meaningful relationships. We should keep in the mind that everything in this world is temporary and that things will change.