You know the thing I don't like about relationships.
Worrying.
When you have something good, you are bound to be
afraid to lose it.
When you have someone you adore, you are bound to
be afraid they will change.
It seems that the stress is part of the package.
With something good, there is always something bad.
Well, but if you think about it, the stress and
the worrying doesn't come from the relationship.
It actually comes from you. It comes from inside
you.
Well, maybe he (your ex or your current boyfriend)
did something to increase the stress.
Maybe something in him changed that made you start
thinking about it. But still, it is you who is worrying.
And it is only you, who can stop it.
Josei, if the problem is inside, it can
never be fixed from outside.
Being happy in a relationship means that you shouldn't
feel any kind of insecurity in your life.
Being happy in a relationship means that you should
absolutely be sure that your boyfriend wants you more
than anyone else.
Being happy in a relationship means that even if he
sees some other girl from the corner of his eye, you
know that you are the only one he could ever be with
no matter what happens.
Being happy in a relationship means that you know
what your man wants and what your man thinks.
Josei, I want you to be in a happy
relationship. Doesn't matter if you are back
with your ex or if you are with someone else
or if you are single.
I want you to have a relationship without all
the worrying. I want you to be in a relationship
where you understand your man and KNOW (not just guess)
what he thinks.
I know it can be a little hard, considering the
fact that men are notoriously famous for keeping
their feelings to themselves. (I am also guilty of this
... ask my girlfriend. But I try to become better.)
But you don't need to have the perfect man to understand
them. In fact, I am sure even the perfect man will
want to hide his feelings at some point in the
relationship.