We
often hear term or word of “single” and every people who doesn’t have a couple
is called with single. The words of single are very close in our ears. When we
attend a party or go to theater usually our friends “say why you’re alone where
your couples are”. Single ya….! Even there’s someone says” today is still
single oh… my god” so, what happen with “single”..? What is the cause to be
single is there wrong with Jomblokers?
Maybe among us assumes that when
someone doesn’t have a couple directly called with single, that’s wrong. Single
isn’t identical with not having a couple. Actually, Single can be translated in
two versions explicit & implicit. In explicit single is situation
and condition which someone really does not have coupled yet. And, in implicit
single is someone condition that has couple but seldom
To met because of long
distance so, we can say that; single when there is no couple but , if there is
couple he is not called with single Actually
there are many factors why some one doesn’t have a couple yet alias Jomblo:
Firstly existence of afraid feeling to be
disappointed by their couples such
us broken heart, Then
they think how
if their self experience it, And the abundant of afraid
feeling will cause them
to choose single than their self to be
disappointed.
Secondly
existence of abundant ego, When someone claims that his self is the most real correct, it’s can be
serious condition coz he is the most real correct (according to him).and when
they’re busy with their business each other, a relation shall no longer be
harmonious. Then, they think what for we gather again. Actually this problem is
not a big problem if only they be able to understand and communication each
other. Coz a relation isn’t simply each other meeting (sekedar saling ketemu),
walking or having fun doanx, but how we can know and understanding each
other, a relation shall no longer be harmonious. Then, they think what for we
gather again. Actually this problem is not a big problem if only they be able
to understand and communication each other. Coz a relation isn’t simply each
other meeting (sekedar saling ketemu), walking or having fun doanx,
but how we can know and understanding each other. However, if ego talks mind
road will be unidirectional again, many of us that experienced the failure just
because of heavy thinking and difficult job.
And there are many positive
effects of single
·
We will be free because nobody
disturbs us, and we can focus on our activities, lessons and everything we do
nothing that prohibit.
·
We will be fun, enjoy together
with our friends coz nobody feels jealous with us.
·
No one will fill hurt because
we are free to make relationship and friendship with everyone.
·
we can save our money because
we will not treat our darling ^_^
If
we are talking about positive effect, of Crouse there will be the negative
effect, right? Do you want to know? Be patient guys… We will explain only for
you. So don’t change your position until you finish reading this lovely
bulletin, ok!!!
Dr.
Ken Olson said: if we have a cassette or bad
feeling, we can turn off and change it. If we are afraid to love, we can learn
for that. If it is made to worry by having cold feet, we can learn how to solve
it. It’s mean that we can change. And be sure that our god has created a couple
for us. It is not exactly on the time
Once again, don’t be afraid
called with “SINGLE. “Single is Okay no problem and so what gitu lhoh… There
are still many jobs that wait for us than bewailing or regretting why we are to
be single.
vocabs
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Term :
Istilah
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Separated : Terpisah
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Abundant : Berlebih-lebihan
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Having cold feet : Rasa cemas
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bewailing : Meratapi
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unidirectional : Tidak searah